One of the most troubling of life’s experiences is to run across those persons and occasions that disappoint us. It is likely an inevitability to meet this unpleasant experience along the way. Being prepared for it, dealing with it with grace and determining how you will treat the person(s) involved afterward may be considerations to contemplate.
Persons who disappoint us don’t necessarily set out to do so. Their own insensitivity, their lack of social graces, their inability at self discipline may all contribute to the occasion. The most sensitive way to manage such moments is to respond with kindness and gentleness. Sometimes that works and sometimes it doesn’t. Returning kind with kind is no way to face the person who has disappointed you.
Escalating the occasion will only exacerbate the difficulty. Learning how to be graceful in situations in which there is none, is a sure fire way to challenge others